Others think the issue is one of perception on the part of society: But I’m well aware that there needs to be a great balance between romanticism and sexuality.” And understandably, now we’re hypersexual because of the lost time and the mental subjugation by this heteronormative society. We never had that teenage phase of dating or the first kiss. We weren’t allowed to think or to feel or to act in accordance of our natural desire. “Gay culture has been so underdeveloped in the case of sexuality. One Redditor blamed the sexual nature of gay men on having missed out in our teens.